Don't Worry, Be Happy

Don’t Worry, Be Happy

In life, we all have our ups and downs. We have things that bring us great joy but sometimes we don’t feel our happiness for what we do have because we constantly wish for more. We want certain things in our lives that have yet to come such as that dream job, more money, a relationship, children, that college degree etc. 

Often times we forget about the things we have that we should be happy for because we’re too focused on worrying about what we don’t yet have. Other times we get upset at seeing others happy with things that we want but don’t yet have ourselves. We feel that it’s not fair for them to be happy when we can’t have those things but the truth is, they have every right to be happy and it’s not their fault for us not yet having things we wish for. It’s all about patience, timing, passion, dedication, hope and hard work when it comes to getting what we want in life.

But just because we don’t have that amazing career, a baby, marriage, a larger paycheck, a beautiful house, a nice car or any other dream or goal we’re striving for does not mean we should let that stop us from being happy, especially for what we do have now. It’s perfectly fine to work and dream for what we want but we should still be thankful and joyful for the things that do bring happiness in our lives whether they are small things or big things. Regardless of what others may say or think, it’s ok to be happy with what we have been blessed with such as good friends, a good education, our pets, a week on vacation etc. Regardless of other’s opinions, it’s ok to take delight in things or hobbies that bring us happiness such as singing or dancing, reading a favorite book, taking a warm bubble bath, eating a favorite snack, having a relaxing yoga session, spending time with your best friend etc. Anything that brings positivity and happiness in your life that does not harm you or others in any way is a healthy thing.

Additionally, the things we want will come to us if we keep staying positive, persistent and patient. While we wait and work for those goals or dreams, let us be happy and grateful for the good things in our life instead of focusing on the negative because of what we don’t yet have. Use the time you have while waiting to focus on bettering yourself as a person in whatever way possible and enjoying life as it is now for all the wonderful blessings you have received. There is always something to be thankful and happy for so don’t worry about what you don’t yet have. Be happy for what you do have.